{"id":1864,"date":"2020-03-21T14:22:45","date_gmt":"2020-03-21T18:22:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/?p=1864"},"modified":"2020-03-21T15:41:44","modified_gmt":"2020-03-21T19:41:44","slug":"the-familiar-feeling-of-confinement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/blog-en\/the-familiar-feeling-of-confinement\/","title":{"rendered":"The familiar feeling of confinement"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I like to observe things through the lenses of the perinatal experience. Especially events of an archetypal nature such as the current pandemic. A disease rapidly infecting humans on a global scale resonates with the idea of the toxic first matrix. The amniotic fluid, the life-giving ocean from which consciousness emerged, suddenly becomes a poisonous cloud that permeates everything, an invisible but tangible and deadly threat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This signal marks the expulsion from paradise, from the comfort, from the known, and the beginning of the birth process. This first part of birth is the beginning of labor, of contractions. At this time, the cervix is not yet open and the pressures endured by the creature about to be born are titanic. The biological reason behind this apparently cruel punishment is to move the baby in the optimal position for expulsion. But this meaning is completely lost on the tiny thing experiencing it and the only understanding presenting itself at that time is that the once loving and kind universe has been replaced by a malevolent and cruel divinity determined to crush, suffocate, erase and annihilate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is the experience of the second perinatal matrix. It resonates with feelings of betrayal, paranoia, deception, and of despair, powerlessness, rage, depression, loneliness. At that time, there is no movement towards the exit, there is nothing that the baby can \u201cdo\u201d to get out of this: it is at the mercy of the malevolent divinity that has it trapped, alone, beyond hope and help. The fear of spiders that similarly trap their prey resonates very much with this. The fear of large snakes that constrict their prey also vibrates to the same frequency. And of course, claustrophobia in all its forms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This is the\nemotion that is emerging for most of us, as our movements are getting limited\nand as we are approaching or experiencing confinement. This is the nightmarish\nexperience at the dawn of our initiation to human beingness that casts it\nimmense and terrifying shadow on our understanding of the situation. This is why\npanic, despair, hopelessness and paranoia are extremely present at this time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is an\nenergy that my practice of Holotropic Breathwork has made me very aware of. I\u2019ve\nspent countless hours, just lying there, incapable of doing anything, frustrated,\nfull of rage and without hope, convinced that this feeling would last for all eternity.\nIn this state, I have tried numerous strategies to \u201cget out\u201d. None of them\nwork. Since no strategy works, the only solution, for me, has been to accept\nthe situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Accept that I have no control over the situation, over how long it will last, over the reason it is happening. Accept that the situation might last for ever. Accept that I am extremely small, that the universe is infinitely bigger, and that I am nothing. I am an ant trying to figure out space travel. I am powerless to do anything. I can not even understand what the \u201cI\u201d that wants to do things is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At this\nstage, most people rebel against this \u201csolution\u201d and start to say things like \u201cThis\nis nihilism\u201d or \u201cWe still have to try to do stuff\u201d, etc. All this might be true\nand useful and all that, but it still comes from a place that is trying to\navoid feeling this thing that I am trying to describe: the second perinatal\nmatrix experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, it is something very difficult, very painful to experience, but it is also very important and powerful. When all hope disappears, when all sense of power and control dissolves, a very real sense of clarity emerges. When self (and consequently self-preservation) is taken out of the picture, only then can you start to see things with a certain objectivity. And it is this clarity and objectivity that will allow a solution to emerge. Something new, unexpected, miraculous that will turn defeat into victory, death into rebirth. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is why I roll my eyes at people who don\u2019t even take the time to experience the pain and difficulty of the weeks and months ahead and already proclaim to know what awaits us after. They will often use vague language like \u201cvibrate on higher planes of energy\u201d or some such empty concepts, as if it meant something. Those words have the effect of a narcotic in that they mean to take the pain away by removing us from the here and the now. Something will certainly emerge form this, but no-one yet knows what it is. We will be transformed by this planetary experience, but into what? No one knows and those who say they do are either dishonest, stupid or at least lacking in humility and imagination. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For something\nnew, powerful, true and alive to emerge, we have to take the time to experience\nour absence of control, our despair, our hopelessness. If we do not take the\ntime that is offered to us to familiarize ourselves with these emotions that\nare deeply imprinted in us since birth, we will again be manipulated by the ones\nwho will be the most effective at distracting us from those emotions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And we will\nwaste this incredible opportunity for transformation that is offered to us. Six\nmonths ago, people gathered in vast numbers to demand change for the good of\nthe biosphere. Now, as everything comes to a stop, we see that radical change\nis possible. Something unimaginable a few months ago is now happening. But for\nthis moment to happen, people are dying by the thousands: we can not let those\ndeaths mean nothing and just be an intermission before we resume our ecocidal circus.\nThat would be a terrible tragedy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Our job at\nthe moment is to sit with difficult emotions. It is the only way we can truly honor\nthe dead. It is the only way we will build the strength to prepare us for what\nis coming, whatever it is.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I like to observe things through the lenses of the perinatal experience. Especially events of an archetypal nature such as the current pandemic. A disease rapidly infecting humans on a global scale resonates with the idea of the toxic first matrix. The amniotic fluid, the life-giving ocean from which consciousness emerged, suddenly becomes a poisonous […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1868,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[52],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog-en"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1864"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1864\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1868"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/montrealholotropic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}